Saturday, August 25, 2007

LOSING YOU IS LOSING ME!

Have you watched rush hour 3? In case you haven't watched yet, there was a scene there where Chris Tucker was confused between the apprentice's and the master's names...Duh! Just watch the movie if you want to know what I'm talking about. I'm not really good at narrating. [Laughs] Actually, this has nothing to do with what I'm going to write about, at all. I just can't forget that scene when I hear the words "you" and "me".
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Well... "Losing you is losing me."
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Oh, come on! Grow up! This is the worst I've ever heard so far!
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I know, losing someone dear to you is really hard. Oftentimes, "hard" can't describe the pain of such lost or even justify what you are really going through. But that doesn't mean the world ends there. "Lost" doesn't always mean "end". Most definitely. Sometimes, losing is gaining. And sometimes, you have to lose in order to gain. I believe that this applies to everything and everyone. But let's stick with losing someone.
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As an average human being, I'm no exemption to this dilemna. I have lost several times. And throughout time, I was made aware that despite the lost, I was able to gain.
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I was "hooked up" with someone I thought to be my destiny. Believe me, it's more "corny" then than how it sounds now. Anyway, that someone was a long-time crush. So when I had the chance to have him, I did everthing to get him. And I must admit, I kind of lost myself back then. But in return, I got him, I guess. And just as I thought that things will be great from then on, he left. And I've never been so clueless, confused, shocked, sleepless and very paranoid after that. I really didn't know what to do. I thought I'll go crazy. Fortunately, I'm still here, sanely writing and trying to convince people. [Laughs]
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Of course, it was long before I've moved on, like years long. I am myself now. I really have myself back when I lost him. That's what matters most, right? And that's what I'm trying to tell you folks.
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If you say that you'll lose yourself without him, forget it! It's definitely not love anymore if that's what you think what love is. Love is supposedly to bring out the best in you, not bring you out of yourelf or out of your mind. Love is to nurture not to destroy or exploit. So when you say that you'll lose yourself, think again. Because it's like saying losing your life. Duh! My point is simple, when you think that you truly love someone that much for you to lose yourself, snap out of it! It won't do anything good not only to you or to him but also to those around you.
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I'm not saying that you have to take everthing that I'm saying or that I'm right about this matter of love and life as well. I'm talking just based on my own experience. You don't really need me or anyone. You actually know what to do. You just have to wake up first.

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